“Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.”

Benjamin Franklin

“Sleep is the elixer of life. It is the Swiss army knive of health, and it’s mother nature’s best effort yet at immortality.”

Matthew Walker, PhD

Why I Sleep

Sleep is the most critical act I do each day and the one that I firmly believe will afford me the longest health span possible.

Although much attention is paid to my fitness and nutrition protocols through my social media, when it comes to health and wellness, sleep is the bedrock of it all. The quality and quantity of sleep I got the night before, the night before that, and the night before that highly determine my day’s success. So you could say that every aspect of my day is constructed to ensure I can maximize my sleep at night. This is partly because I don’t have much time to devote to sleep, so I must get the most time I can out of bed. But mostly because sleep is sacred to me.

How I Used to Treat Sleep

I was not always this focused on sleep, though. In fact, for most of my early adult life, I viewed sleep as secondary to everything else in life. My studies, work, hobbies, and social life were always more important than a good night’s rest. I also probably did everything imaginable to destroy it, unwittingly or not, such as drinking caffeine or alcohol (or both..) up until I passed out, eating junk food right before bed, going to bed, and waking up at different times every day, and staring at my phone and watching TV into the late hours of the night.

Even when I wasn’t doing any of these things, I still probably couldn’t get a good night’s sleep because my body could never get into its natural circadian rhythm. Nothing was in sync; all aspects of my life and routine were erratic.

A Reckoning with Sleep and Myself

Everything changed during my transition from the military to the civilian world. I could barely stay awake during the day. I was falling asleep at the wheel; while reading a book, watching TV, or doing any activity. Around that time, I was diagnosed with idiopathic hypersomnia; my quality of life was crashing down on me. That’s when I came across the book “Why We Sleep” by Matthew Walker, Ph.D., in 2019. If there has been any book that has altered my life more than anything else, this would be it. (I wrote a complete summary of “Why We Sleep” for those interested in the science and facts behind sleep that ignited this journey of mine.)

Sleep went from being secondary to all things in life to primary. So I set out to master it. But little did I know that this would become a journey to master me, and one that will probably last a lifetime. For to master sleep, I needed to come to terms with the fact that every aspect of how I lived my daily life was affecting my sleep. Indeed, every part of modern life itself was also affecting my sleep. But at the root of it all was my incredible lack of discipline to counter both.

The Battle Between Your Attention and Your Sleep

Much of our industrialized world is the antithesis of a good night’s sleep. It demands your attention, needs it, and depends on it. Without your engagement and consumption, the big industries, such as Big Food and Beverage, Big Media, Big Entertainment, and Big Pharma, would crumble. Thus, they will do everything and anything they can to capture it, regardless of the consequences on your health. And when do they do most of their messaging? At night, when most people are finished with the requirements of the day, exhausted, are most vulnerable, and have plopped themselves down in front of the TV or any screen for that matter.

We are transfixed by sports, 24/7 news, and many shows being pumped out of the various platforms competing for our attention. The primetime hours for all these things occur at night when you are biologically designed to wind down from the day and prepare for sleep. Instead, we’re up late for a football game, exposed to bright artificial lights, while eating a bag of chips and watching commercials promoting junk food, alcohol, and medications to cure many ailments affecting the everyday American. The irony of this should be stifling.

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My Journey Towards Seep Restoration

Sleep Habits and Mindset

Even though I finally recognized sleep for what it was worth in 2019, it took years to get to where I am today. Dr. Walker’s book opened my eyes to the power of sleep, but I still had much to change about myself and learn about maximizing my sleep. So I would change things individually, such as not watching TV late at night, allowing myself time to adapt to the change, and testing my discipline. The goal was always to view and treat the change as not something temporary but something for life. That may sound drastic, but I saw improving my sleep as a matter of life or death. And to handle the magnitude of this imperative, I had to keep the changes small. Otherwise, it would be too much, and I would fail (which I still did many times over).

What I realized through this habit-changing process was that I wasn’t merely changing lousy sleep habits to good ones; I was changing my mindset to it all. For example, now, when I consider the prospect of watching TV at night, it doesn’t feel natural anymore, as if it’s not a part of me. That doesn’t mean I don’t ever watch TV at night. I will watch a movie or a show with my wife here and there. But now, rather than being a constant thing, something expected, it’s unnatural and unique. This can become a more meaningful experience when combined with something else, like enjoying it with my wife.

Sleep Tools

Once I could change my mindset about sleep, ridding myself of the bad habits that plagued my sleep, indeed, my entire life, for over a decade, I realized there was still so much to learn about maximizing it. This revelation occurred while listening to a podcast by Dr. Andrew Huberman on mastering your sleep, where he explained the science and tools from a neuroscientific/neurobiological stance.

tweet on sleep by Dr. Huberman

Among many other things, he introduced the sun’s power to optimize one’s sleep. How viewing early morning sunlight can set one’s circadian rhythm for the day, and viewing it in the late afternoon can provide neuroprotective effects from artificial lights in the evening. He also goes into the many supplements one can take to help improve sleep. Still, for now, I’ve decided to remain all-natural to ensure I’m not masking any personal deficiencies in my sleep routine with supplements. Much more of what I learned will be described in my sleep protocol below.

Final Note Before Getting into the Sleep Specifics

Before I get into my daily routine and sleep protocol, it’s important to note that the goal of maximizing my sleep is more of maximizing my opportunity for sleep. No matter how perfectly executed my daily sleep protocol is, some nights won’t reflect it. And that’s okay. I’m increasing my chances of getting a great night of sleep every night while recognizing that it won’t always be perfect. Having this mindset helps get a good night’s sleep—a sort of reverse psychology.

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Daily Routine

To set the stage for my sleep protocol, it’s important to share my daily routine as it is embedded into it. Then, after I go through my protocol, I will take my daily routine and superimpose my sleep routine onto it to show how they coincide.

When Christina doesn’t go into the office:

  • 3:00 AM – Wake up, get dressed, chores
  • 3:30 AM – Work
  • 6:00 AM – Read & journal; time with Christina
  • 7:00 AM – Make family breakfast; I have some fruit
  • 7:30 AM – Clean up kitchen
  • 8:00 AM – Workout #1 (Run)
  • 9:00 AM – Post-run recovery
  • 9:30 AM – Kids snack time; I eat breakfast
  • 10:00 AM – Errands; playtime with kids
  • 11:30 AM – Make family lunch; I eat as well
  • 12:00 PM – Clean kitchen/house
  • 12:30 PM – Put kids down for a nap
  • 1:00 PM – Workout #2 (Lift)
  • 2:00 PM – Post-life recovery
  • 2:30 PM – Work
  • 3:00 PM – Wake kids up; snack time; I eat again
  • 3:30 PM – Playtime with kids; start dinner prep
  • 5:00 PM – Serve family dinner
  • 5:30 PM – Post-dinner playtime; clean kitchen/house
  • 6:00 PM – Kids bathtime, getting ready for bed
  • 7:00 PM – Kids bedtime; Christina and I start getting ready for bed
  • 8:00 PM – Down for the night

When Christina does go into the office:

  • 3:00 AM – Wake up, get dressed, chores
  • 3:30 AM – Work
  • 6:00 AM – Read & journal; time with my Christina
  • 7:00 AM – Make family breakfast; I have some fruit
  • 7:30 AM – Clean up kitchen
  • 8:00 AM – Drop Christina off at the train station
  • 8:30 AM – Workout #1 (Run w/ kids in the double jogging stroller)
  • 9:30 AM – Kids snack time; post-run recovery
  • 10:00 AM – I eat breakfast
  • 10:30 AM – Errands; playtime with kids
  • 11:30 AM – Make family lunch; I eat as well
  • 12:00 PM – Clean kitchen/house
  • 12:30 PM – Put kids down for a nap
  • 1:00 PM – Workout #2 (Lift)
  • 2:00 PM – Post-life recovery
  • 2:30 PM – Work
  • 3:00 PM – Wake kids up; snack time; I eat again
  • 3:30 PM – Playtime with kids; start dinner prep
  • 5:00 PM – Pick Christina up from the train station
  • 5:30 PM – Serve family dinner
  • 6:00 PM – Post-dinner playtime; clean kitchen/house
  • 6:30 PM – Kids bathtime, getting ready for bed
  • 7:00 PM – Kids bedtime; Christina and I start getting ready for bed
  • 8:00 PM – Down for the night

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My Sleep Protocol

Now for my current sleep protocol as it relates to my everyday routine and the time of the year [which influences sunrise and sunset – currently late winter]. Everything you see below follows my circadian rhythm, unique to each individual and highly influenced by light, primarily the sun.

1) I wake up at the same time every day.

My protocol for maximizing sleep each day starts when I wake up at 3 AM. It’s called your circadian rhythm for a reason; to stay in rhythm, you want to go to bed and wake up at nearly the same time every day.

2) I immediately turn on all the lights.

It would be best if you strived to view sunlight within 30-60 minutes upon waking to set your circadian rhythm, but since I get up several hours before the sun, I turn on all the lights in the room I’ll be working in that morning to help mimic the effect. Bright morning light tells your body to suppress melatonin and increase cortisol, which I will explain next. But in brief, your melatonin and cortisol cycles coincide with your periods of wakefulness and restfulness:

peaks and troughs of cortisol vs melatonin during a 24 hour cycle
Mashkov, et. al. (2017). LED LAMP FOR APPLICATION IN MEDICAL CENTERS – DESIGN AND THERMAL MANAGEMENT.
3) I don’t drink coffee within the first 90-120 minutes of waking up.

I have my first, and typically only cup, of coffee around 6 AM. A lot goes into this, so I’ll try my best to unpack it here.

Adenosine and sleep

A critical molecule that affects your sleep drive, adenosine, rises throughout the day. As you get into the later part of the day, it contributes to your sleepiness and helps you fall asleep. Here’s how it works as related to your circadian rhythm:

the sleep drive vs the wake drive
5 Ways to Improve Your Sleep – Sara Randall

The high sleep pressure depicted above is the primary factor driving you to go to sleep at night. But when you consume caffeine, it displaces adenosine at a receptor level, which is why you get the jolt of “energy” from caffeine – you’re inhibiting the feeling of drowsiness by reducing the growing sleep pressure of the day.

the mechanism of how caffeine blocks adenosine and decreases your sleep drive
Osmosis from Elsevier

But when you first wake up, you still have adenosine in your system, which needs some time to clear. So when you have coffee shortly after waking, you displace the adenosine, but after caffeine is gone, adenosine binds to its receptors with increased affinity. This causes the afternoon crash and the desire for more caffeine.

how caffeine interrupts your natural energy cycle
How Caffeine Impacts Your Energy Cycles

By affording 90-120 minutes after waking to clear the remaining adenosine from your system before having your first cup of coffee, you can enjoy the effects of the caffeine without residual adenosine lingering around to give you that crash afterward. Science!

Cortisol and sleep

Another aspect of all this is that you have a considerable cortisol spike shortly after waking, a natural energy source. Cortisol helps clear adenosine. Caffeine also disrupts cortisol production, further limiting your ability to clear the adenosine from your system.

Finally, taking caffeine while cortisol is high increases tolerance. This tolerance, combined with the disruption of your adenosine clearance, leads to the several-cups-of-coffee-a-day habit as you constantly try to fight drowsiness and the waning effects of caffeine on your system.

4) I go on an early morning run.

By starting my run no later than 8 AM during winter, I can still capture the early morning sun’s effects on adequately setting my circadian rhythm. This run also gets my blood pumping and sets the tone for the rest of my day.

Furthermore, sunlight boosts vitamin D production in the body, which has also been associated with improving many aspects of sleep, such as time-to-sleep, sleep duration, sleep quality, and proportion of time in REM sleep. Unfortunately, this effect is limited during the winter in New England due to the increased distance from the sun and decreased skin exposure from clothes worn to combat colder weather.

5) I avoid coffee within 12 hours of bedtime.

Since I go to bed at 8 PM, I rarely have coffee after 8 AM. I’ve already explained how caffeine disrupts your sleep drive by inhibiting adenosine, so here I will describe how it insidiously disrupts your sleep quality.

The half-life of caffeine is approximately 5 hours. This means that 5 hours after consuming the caffeinated beverage, half of the caffeine will have cleared your system. After another 5 hours, a quarter, another 5 hours, an eighth, and so on. So if I have my typical coffee at 6 AM and then another at 8 AM, this is when I can expect to achieve restful sleep:

caffeine levels by hour after two cups of coffee as related to sleep threshold
Caffeine levels throughout the day after drinking 2 cups of 8oz of coffee at 6 AM and 8 AM. In this scenario, it’s 9 PM before caffeine levels fall below the 50mg threshold—an hour after my standard 8 PM bedtime.

This is still pushing it a bit as I sleep at 8 PM, but I don’t take it as gospel since this is still just a simulator. Regardless, to avoid even the possibility of caffeine interfering with my sleep, I tend to keep to my one cup of coffee at 6 AM, which, based on the simulator, gives me this:

caffeine levels by hour after one cup of coffee as related to sleep threshold
Caffeine levels throughout the day after drinking 1 cup of 8oz of coffee at 6 AM. In this scenario, it’s 3 PM before caffeine levels fall below the 50mg threshold. Well before my standard 8 PM bedtime.

With an 8 PM bedtime, this predicted outcome is much more favorable to a good night’s sleep!

Check out your expected restful sleep time with the caffeine simulator based on your coffee intake. To get even more insight into this topic, check out the full article.

6) I eat and work out around the same time every day.

I’ve found that my body and mind work best when I keep things consistent. And when I keep things consistent, I’ve seen the quality of my sleep increase. When I eat and work out, two aspects of the day can be controlled decently enough to occur around similar times each day. It’s like giving your body certain expectations of what will happen daily to prime itself for them. This is keeping in line with my circadian rhythm.

7) I never nap during the day.

As discussed earlier, napping decreases your homeostatic sleep pressure, aka your sleep drive. This can affect your ability to fall asleep at night and interfere with your sleep stages.

Although much research has gone into the effects of napping during the day, with a general agreement that naps less than 90 minutes and before 3 PM should have a limited impact on nighttime sleep (when already getting sufficient sleep at night), I find myself better off without them. For one, I do not have the time to nap. And two, I’m just uber-protective of my nighttime sleep.

I have come across research that shows for healthy athletes, a 90-minute nap in the early afternoon, prior to intensive physical training or competition, improves performance significantly. Maybe once the kids can finally take care of themselves, I will try this out one day.

8) I view sunlight during the last couple of hours before sunset.

The sunlight you view during sunrise and sunset arrives in different wavelengths than the sunlight during the daytime hours. Therefore, by exposing yourself to natural light during the day, especially during the sunrise and sunset when the light is less blue and more red and yellow, you can help regulate your body’s natural circadian rhythm and improve your natural production of melatonin. This may help mitigate the adverse effects of artificial blue light exposure at night by promoting healthy sleep patterns and better overall sleep quality (source, source).

9) I walk barefoot on the grass/ground (aka “Grounding” or “Earthing”) at least once a day.

Many alternative and complementary practitioners commonly use the term “ungrounded” to describe patients, but this report sheds light on its scientific meaning. It is often overlooked that human life evolved in close contact with the Earth’s surface, with people walking and sleeping directly on the ground until a few generations ago. As a result, the Earth’s electrical field was evenly distributed over the skin and throughout the respiratory and gastrointestinal tracts, which are electrically conductive. However, modern lifestyles involve wearing insulating shoes and living and working in environments that are electrically disconnected from the Earth, resulting in a lack of exposure to the planet’s natural voltage.

I believe that that reestablishing electrical contact with the earth can improve not only sleep, but also recovery, health, and vitality and a decent amount of research seems to back me up on this (source, source, source).

Big Pharma and Big Medical wouldn’t have you know this, but the intervention to the many chronic degenerative illness that plague our time may be right beneath our feet. Grounding or earthing the human body may be just as essential in the health equation with sunshine, clean air and water, nutritious food, and physical activity.

Here are some benefits of grounding on sleep:

  • Reduces night-time levels of cortisol, a stress hormone
  • Helps to re-synchronize cortisol secretion with the natural 24-hour circadian rhythm profile
  • Promotes relaxation and reduces stress levels
  • Decreases sympathetic nervous system activity, which is responsible for the “fight or flight” response
  • Reduces inflammation and oxidative stress in the body, leading to a reduction in pain and discomfort
  • May improve sleep quality and duration
  • May enhance feelings of well-being and mood
  • May help regulate the body’s circadian rhythm, leading to more balanced sleep-wake cycles
  • May help reduce the risk of sleep disturbances caused by electromagnetic fields (EMFs) from electronic devices
  • May promote better immune system function and overall health.
10) I have my last meal (dinner) at least 3 hours before bedtime.

Having your last meal no later than 3 hours before going to sleep is recommended because eating close to bedtime can negatively impact your sleep quality and overall health in several ways, especially in those with GERD (gastroesophageal reflux disease).

First, when you eat close to bedtime, your body is still digesting food while trying to sleep, leading to discomfort, bloating, and indigestion. This can make it harder to fall asleep and stay asleep throughout the night. This is especially so when the meals are heavy in carbs.

Additionally, eating before bedtime can disrupt your body’s natural circadian rhythm, affecting your sleep quality. In particular, eating close to bedtime can affect your body’s ability to achieve deep sleep, which occurs at a higher percentage at the beginning of the night.

Moreover, research has shown that eating late at night may increase the risk of weight gain and metabolic disorders, such as diabetes, as the body is less efficient in metabolizing food during sleep.

Therefore, giving your body enough time to digest your last meal before going to sleep is essential to promote good sleep hygiene, support your natural circadian rhythm, and maintain your overall health.

11) I don’t have any large quantities of liquids after dinner. Only sips of water here and there.

I’ve found that the more liquids I drink close to bedtime, the more often I wake up with the sensation of needing to pee. So to reduce interruptions to my sleep, I ensure I’ve had all the water I need for the day to keep me hydrated before dinnertime. Then, afterward, I take sips here and there if still thirsty.

12) I don’t drink alcohol during dinner, afterward, or at all for that matter.

Alcohol is a known sleep disruptor. Even though it may help you fall asleep at first, it will interrupt all sleep phases and cause you to wake up throughout the latter parts of the night.

Alcohol's effect on sleep

To keep this from happening, I avoid alcohol during and after dinner. These days, I do not drink alcohol at all. There are zero health benefits to drinking alcohol; it’s pretty deleterious. So with everything I’m trying to accomplish, why set me back by drinking alcohol?

(For the curious mind, this is what the above graph looks like after smoking marijuana before bed)

I highly recommend that anyone interested in the effects of alcohol on their health and well-being check out this episode of the Huberman Lab Podcast. It has radically transformed how I view and treat alcohol, like how discovering Dr. Matthews Walker’s book “Why We Sleep” radically changed how I view my sleep.

13) I take a hot bath/shower an hour before sleep.

Nothing relaxes me more than taking a hot shower or bath before bed. It eases my mind and soothes the aches and pains throughout my body from all my running and lifting. I also take the opportunity to get in some extra reading while in the bath.

I’ve found that 20 minutes is the ideal amount of time when going the bath route. Research has shown that 20 minutes in the sauna markedly increases growth hormone production during sleep. Since I don’t have a sauna, I try to mimic the effects with a hot bath.

Benefits of a hot bath prior to sleep:

  • Improved sleep quality: A hot bath can help to relax the body and mind, improving your sleep quality. When you soak in warm water, your body temperature rises and drops once you get out of the bath. This drop in temperature can signal to your body that it’s time to sleep, which can help you fall asleep faster and enjoy a more restful sleep.
  • Reduced stress and anxiety: The warm water and steam from a hot bath can help to reduce feelings of stress and anxiety. Soaking in the tub can be a peaceful and relaxing experience and help calm the mind and body.
  • Pain relief: Hot water can help to soothe sore muscles and joints, making a hot bath an excellent option for people who suffer from chronic pain or soreness. The warmth can help increase blood flow and reduce inflammation, relieving aches and pains.
  • Decrease in blood pressure. In a study of older adults, a bath between 104.5 and 106 degrees Fahrenheit lowered blood pressure before and during sleep, especially when taken less than an hour before bedtime.
  • Improved skin health: A hot bath can help to open up pores and promote sweating, which can help to cleanse the skin and remove toxins. Additionally, warm water can help improve circulation, leading to healthier-looking skin.
  • Increased feelings of well-being: Soaking in a hot bath can be a pleasurable and indulgent experience, which can help boost your mood and overall well-being. Taking time to care for yourself and relax can positively impact your mental health and happiness.
14) I avoid viewing bright lights at night, especially bright overhead lights.

Bright artificial lights at night disrupt the natural rise in melatonin and shorten its duration while asleep (source). This has been shown to profoundly affect the quality and quantity of your sleep with increased susceptibility to diabetes, obesity, and cardiovascular disease (source, source, source, source). As such, we keep all recessed lighting off during the evening in the house and use only dimly lit lamps in the bedroom.

When going to bed, I turn off and hide any potential sources of artificial light creeping into the room.

15) I wear blue light-blocking glasses after 7 PM.

Even though I try to limit the exposure to bright lights at night, I throw on my blue light-blocking glasses at 7 PM, once I’ve put the kids down, just as an extra level of protection. Blue light is known to be the most significant offender of melatonin secretion at night (although all bright light still plays a role). So further limiting it at night can protect my natural rise in melatonin as I prepare for bed.

These are the pair of blue-light-blocking glasses I currently use at night. Although I may look crazy (just ask my wife), I know I’m blocking out that pesky blue light as best I can.

16) I limit phone/screen time after 7 PM.

All screens are just more sources of artificial light at night, especially blue light, that can stop melatonin secretion and disrupt your ability to fall asleep and stay asleep. Phones, in particular, are disruptive because you hold them right in front of your face.

I also find looking at your phone while in bed to be especially dangerous because it’s much easier to be distracted from the sensation of feeling sleepy. I can easily scroll through social media for what feels like hours at night but barely read two pages in a book before I want to pass out.

17) I read before going to sleep.

Not only does reading a book before bed keep me from looking at my phone, but it also helps relax my mind by allowing it to focus on one thing rather than bouncing around on multiple thoughts from the day. Plus, I love to read, and even though I may make it a few pages before passing out, I’m always making progress with my reading list.

18) I keep the bedroom as cold as possible.

Keeping the bedroom as cold as possible, within a comfortable range, can help with sleep because it facilitates the natural decrease in body temperature during the night (source). As we fall asleep, our body temperature begins to drop, and this decrease in temperature helps to initiate and maintain sleep.

Sleep experts recommend a bedroom temperature between 60-67 degrees Fahrenheit (15.5-19.5 degrees Celsius) for optimal sleep. This temperature range can vary depending on personal preferences and other factors, such as bedding and clothing.

In addition to facilitating the natural decrease in body temperature, keeping the bedroom cool can promote deeper, more restful sleep. When the body is too warm, it can lead to restless, fragmented sleep and more frequent awakenings throughout the night.

19) I focus on nasal breathing as I fall into sleep

Nasal breathing can help you sleep better in several ways:

  1. Increases oxygen intake: When you breathe through your nose, the air is filtered, moistened, and warmed before it reaches your lungs. This process helps increase the amount of oxygen that enters your body, which is essential for good health and optimal sleep.
  2. Improves airflow: Nasal breathing helps to create a better airflow through the airways, which can reduce snoring and other sleep-related breathing disorders. When you breathe through your nose, the air flows smoothly through the narrow passageways, reducing the likelihood of obstructions.
  3. Promotes relaxation: Breathing through your nose promotes relaxation and a sense of calmness. It activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which slows down your heart rate and relaxes your muscles, making it easier to fall asleep and stay asleep.
  4. Reduces stress: When you breathe through your nose, you activate the diaphragm, which helps to reduce stress and anxiety. This can help to lower cortisol levels, a hormone associated with stress, and improve your overall mood and sleep quality.

Overall, nasal breathing can help you sleep better by increasing oxygen intake, improving airflow, promoting relaxation, and reducing stress.

20) I don’t take any sleep prescriptions or supplements. All natural.

This topic is best for a stand-alone blog so I won’t get into any detail here. But for my own sake, I don’t take anything anymore and instead focus on optimizing every other aspect of my sleep routine. Not only does it seem more natural, but it’s cheaper.

My concern with taking sleep prescriptions and supplements is that they mask underlying issues. Don’t let Big Pharma fool you. You don’t NEED their quick fixes to get a good night’s sleep. Instead, focus on improving yourself before improving their bottom line.

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Sleep Protocol Summary

Sleep Do’s

  1. ✅ Wake up and go to bed at the same time every day
  2. ✅ View light immediately after waking, and sunlight as soon as the sun rises
  3. ✅ Eat and workout at the same time every day
  4. ✅ View sunlight during the last couple hours of the day
  5. ✅ Walk barefoot outside (“Grounding”) at least once per day
  6. ✅ Eat dinner at least 3 hours prior to bedtime
  7. ✅ Only take sips of water around bedtime
  8. ✅ Take a hot bath/hot shower around an hour before bedtime
  9. ✅ Turn off all bright overhead lights in the evening hours
  10. ✅ Wear blue-light-blocking glasses after 7 PM
  11. ✅ Limit screen time (TV, phone, etc.) after 7 PM
  12. ✅ Read in bed
  13. ✅ Keep the bedroom as cold as possible
  14. ✅ Eliminated artificial lights from the bedroom when finally going to sleep
  15. ✅ Focus on nasal breathing while falling asleep

Sleep Don’ts

  1. ❌ Drink coffee until 90-120 minutes after waking
  2. ❌ Consume caffeine 12 hours prior to bed
  3. ❌ Nap after 3 PM
  4. ❌ Snack after dinner
  5. ❌ Drink large quantities of liquids after dinner
  6. ❌ Drink alcohol during or after dinner
  7. ❌ Take any sleep medications or supplements

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Daily Routine + Sleep Protocol

Now that I’ve covered my daily routine and sleep protocol, I will combine them to show how it all works synergistically. For simplicity, I will show the most typical day, which is when Christina doesn’t go into the office. Sleep protocol is depicted in red.

When Christina doesn’t go into the office:

  • 3:00 AM – Wake up, get dressed, chores (turn on all bright lights once out of the bedroom)
  • 3:30 AM – Work (have bright lights on)
  • 6:00 AM – Read & journal; time with Christina (1st cup of coffee – >90-120min after waking)
  • 7:00 AM – Make family breakfast; I have some fruit (1st snack of the day)
  • 7:30 AM – Clean up the kitchen (last cup of coffee – if having a second)
  • 8:00 AM – Workout #1 (Run) (1st workout; AM sunlight exposure)
  • 9:00 AM – Post-run recovery
  • 9:30 AM – Kids snack time; I eat breakfast (1st meal of the day)
  • 10:00 AM – Errands; playtime with kids
  • 11:30 AM – Make family lunch; I eat as well (2nd meal of the day)
  • 12:00 PM – Clean kitchen/house
  • 12:30 PM – Put kids down for a nap
  • 1:00 PM – Workout #2 (Lift) (2nd workout of the day)
  • 2:00 PM – Post-life recovery
  • 2:30 PM – Work
  • 3:00 PM – Wake kids up; snack time; I eat again (2nd snack of the day)
  • 3:30 PM – Playtime with kids; start dinner prep (go outside for PM sunlight exposure and walk around barefoot [grounding]; turn off all bright, recessed lighting in the house)
  • 5:00 PM – Serve family dinner (3rd and final meal of the day – 3 hours prior to bedtime)
  • 5:30 PM – Post-dinner playtime; clean kitchen/house
  • 6:00 PM – Kids bathtime, getting ready for bed
  • 7:00 PM – Kids bedtime; Christina and I start getting ready for bed (take a hot bath; don blue light-blocking glasses; dim lights in the bedroom)
  • 8:00 PM – Down for the night (phone put away and reading till eyes get heavy..)

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Sleep Technology

The health tech industry is a boom right now, and I would be remiss if I didn’t include a section. With people’s fascination with improving health and tracking health data, many products have been created to capture it. Sleep tech is up there at the top. From watches to mattresses to apps, many products are being introduced to help track and improve your sleep.

I would be lying if I didn’t want to try it all, but like taking sleeping supplements, it can get costly. So personally, to keep an idea of my sleep performance each night, I use the free version of an app called Pillow through my Apple Watch. It automatically detects when I fall asleep and wake up and tracks my sleep cycle through the night.

Here’s an example of what my nightly sleep report would look like:

Sleep report on Pillow app

The Apple Watch 8 now has a built-in sleep cycle tracker, so you may not even need an app anymore if you have this most recent version.

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Conclusion

Sleep may be one of the most underrated hacks to dramatically improve your health and wellness. From decreasing your lifetime chances of developing dementia, cancer, and diabetes to increasing your productivity, athletic performance, and quality of life, sleep can do it all. I hope that by sharing my journey toward maximizing sleep and my sleep protocol, you may find the inspiration and tools to do the same.

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Stay tuned for my protocols on nutrition and fitness!

I also plan to adapt these protocols for the whole family to show how they can be applied to your kids! Always remember, what’s good and bad for you, is good and bad for your kids! Treat them as you’d like to be treated, and give them the best chance at health and wellness!

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