“Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.”

Benjamin Franklin

“Sleep is the elixer of life. It is the Swiss army knive of health, and it’s mother nature’s best effort yet at immortality.”

Matthew Walker, PhD

Why I Sleep

Sleep is the most critical act I do each day and the one that I firmly believe will afford me the longest health span possible.

Although much attention is paid to my fitness and nutrition protocols through my social media, when it comes to health and wellness, sleep is the bedrock of it all. The quality and quantity of sleep I got the night before, the night before that, and the night before that highly determine my day’s success. So you could say that every aspect of my day is constructed to ensure I can maximize my sleep at night. This is partly because I don’t have much time to devote to sleep, so I must get the most time I can out of bed. But mostly because sleep is sacred to me.

How I Used to Treat Sleep

I was not always this focused on sleep, though. In fact, for most of my early adult life, I viewed sleep as secondary to everything else in life. My studies, work, hobbies, and social life were always more important than a good night’s rest. I also probably did everything imaginable to destroy it, unwittingly or not, such as drinking caffeine or alcohol (or both..) up until I passed out, eating junk food right before bed, going to bed, and waking up at different times every day, and staring at my phone and watching TV into the late hours of the night.

Even when I wasn’t doing any of these things, I still probably couldn’t get a good night’s sleep because my body could never get into its natural circadian rhythm. Nothing was in sync; all aspects of my life and routine were erratic.

A Reckoning with Sleep and Myself

Everything changed during my transition from the military to the civilian world. I could barely stay awake during the day. I was falling asleep at the wheel; while reading a book, watching TV, or doing any activity. Around that time, I was diagnosed with idiopathic hypersomnia; my quality of life was crashing down on me. That’s when I came across the book “Why We Sleep” by Matthew Walker, Ph.D., in 2019. If there has been any book that has altered my life more than anything else, this would be it. (I wrote a complete summary of “Why We Sleep” for those interested in the science and facts behind sleep that ignited this journey of mine.)

Sleep went from being secondary to all things in life to primary. So I set out to master it. But little did I know that this would become a journey to master me, and one that will probably last a lifetime. For to master sleep, I needed to come to terms with the fact that every aspect of how I lived my daily life was affecting my sleep. Indeed, every part of modern life itself was also affecting my sleep. But at the root of it all was my incredible lack of discipline to counter both.

The Battle Between Your Attention and Your Sleep

Much of our industrialized world is the antithesis of a good night’s sleep. It demands your attention, needs it, and depends on it. Without your engagement and consumption, the big industries, such as Big Food and Beverage, Big Media, Big Entertainment, and Big Pharma, would crumble. Thus, they will do everything and anything they can to capture it, regardless of the consequences on your health. And when do they do most of their messaging? At night, when most people are finished with the requirements of the day, exhausted, are most vulnerable, and have plopped themselves down in front of the TV or any screen for that matter.

We are transfixed by sports, 24/7 news, and many shows being pumped out of the various platforms competing for our attention. The primetime hours for all these things occur at night when you are biologically designed to wind down from the day and prepare for sleep. Instead, we’re up late for a football game, exposed to bright artificial lights, while eating a bag of chips and watching commercials promoting junk food, alcohol, and medications to cure many ailments affecting the everyday American. The irony of this should be stifling.

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My Journey Towards Seep Restoration

Sleep Habits and Mindset

Even though I finally recognized sleep for what it was worth in 2019, it took years to get to where I am today. Dr. Walker’s book opened my eyes to the power of sleep, but I still had much to change about myself and learn about maximizing my sleep. So I would change things individually, such as not watching TV late at night, allowing myself time to adapt to the change, and testing my discipline. The goal was always to view and treat the change as not something temporary but something for life. That may sound drastic, but I saw improving my sleep as a matter of life or death. And to handle the magnitude of this imperative, I had to keep the changes small. Otherwise, it would be too much, and I would fail (which I still did many times over).

What I realized through this habit-changing process was that I wasn’t merely changing lousy sleep habits to good ones; I was changing my mindset to it all. For example, now, when I consider the prospect of watching TV at night, it doesn’t feel natural anymore, as if it’s not a part of me. That doesn’t mean I don’t ever watch TV at night. I will watch a movie or a show with my wife here and there. But now, rather than being a constant thing, something expected, it’s unnatural and unique. This can become a more meaningful experience when combined with something else, like enjoying it with my wife.

Sleep Tools

Once I could change my mindset about sleep, ridding myself of the bad habits that plagued my sleep, indeed, my entire life, for over a decade, I realized there was still so much to learn about maximizing it. This revelation occurred while listening to a podcast by Dr. Andrew Huberman on mastering your sleep, where he explained the science and tools from a neuroscientific/neurobiological stance.

tweet on sleep by Dr. Huberman

Among many other things, he introduced the sun’s power to optimize one’s sleep. How viewing early morning sunlight can set one’s circadian rhythm for the day, and viewing it in the late afternoon can provide neuroprotective effects from artificial lights in the evening. He also goes into the many supplements one can take to help improve sleep. Still, for now, I’ve decided to remain all-natural to ensure I’m not masking any personal deficiencies in my sleep routine with supplements. Much more of what I learned will be described in my sleep protocol below.

Final Note Before Getting into the Sleep Specifics

Before I get into my daily routine and sleep protocol, it’s important to note that the goal of maximizing my sleep is more of maximizing my opportunity for sleep. No matter how perfectly executed my daily sleep protocol is, some nights won’t reflect it. And that’s okay. I’m increasing my chances of getting a great night of sleep every night while recognizing that it won’t always be perfect. Having this mindset helps get a good night’s sleep—a sort of reverse psychology.

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Daily Routine

To set the stage for my sleep protocol, it’s important to share my daily routine as it is embedded into it. Then, after I go through my protocol, I will take my daily routine and superimpose my sleep routine onto it to show how they coincide.

When Christina doesn’t go into the office:

  • 3:00 AM – Wake up, get dressed, chores
  • 3:30 AM – Work
  • 6:00 AM – Read & journal; time with Christina
  • 7:00 AM – Make family breakfast; I have some fruit
  • 7:30 AM – Clean up kitchen
  • 8:00 AM – Workout #1 (Run)
  • 9:00 AM – Post-run recovery
  • 9:30 AM – Kids snack time; I eat breakfast
  • 10:00 AM – Errands; playtime with kids
  • 11:30 AM – Make family lunch; I eat as well
  • 12:00 PM – Clean kitchen/house
  • 12:30 PM – Put kids down for a nap
  • 1:00 PM – Workout #2 (Lift)
  • 2:00 PM – Post-life recovery
  • 2:30 PM – Work
  • 3:00 PM – Wake kids up; snack time; I eat again
  • 3:30 PM – Playtime with kids; start dinner prep
  • 5:00 PM – Serve family dinner
  • 5:30 PM – Post-dinner playtime; clean kitchen/house
  • 6:00 PM – Kids bathtime, getting ready for bed
  • 7:00 PM – Kids bedtime; Christina and I start getting ready for bed
  • 8:00 PM – Down for the night

When Christina does go into the office:

  • 3:00 AM – Wake up, get dressed, chores
  • 3:30 AM – Work
  • 6:00 AM – Read & journal; time with my Christina
  • 7:00 AM – Make family breakfast; I have some fruit
  • 7:30 AM – Clean up kitchen
  • 8:00 AM – Drop Christina off at the train station
  • 8:30 AM – Workout #1 (Run w/ kids in the double jogging stroller)
  • 9:30 AM – Kids snack time; post-run recovery
  • 10:00 AM – I eat breakfast
  • 10:30 AM – Errands; playtime with kids
  • 11:30 AM – Make family lunch; I eat as well
  • 12:00 PM – Clean kitchen/house
  • 12:30 PM – Put kids down for a nap
  • 1:00 PM – Workout #2 (Lift)
  • 2:00 PM – Post-life recovery
  • 2:30 PM – Work
  • 3:00 PM – Wake kids up; snack time; I eat again
  • 3:30 PM – Playtime with kids; start dinner prep
  • 5:00 PM – Pick Christina up from the train station
  • 5:30 PM – Serve family dinner
  • 6:00 PM – Post-dinner playtime; clean kitchen/house
  • 6:30 PM – Kids bathtime, getting ready for bed
  • 7:00 PM – Kids bedtime; Christina and I start getting ready for bed
  • 8:00 PM – Down for the night

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My Sleep Protocol

Now for my current sleep protocol as it relates to my everyday routine and the time of the year [which influences sunrise and sunset – currently late winter]. Everything you see below follows my circadian rhythm, unique to each individual and highly influenced by light, primarily the sun.

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Sleep Protocol Summary

Sleep Do’s

  1. ✅ Wake up and go to bed at the same time every day
  2. ✅ View light immediately after waking, and sunlight as soon as the sun rises
  3. ✅ Eat and workout at the same time every day
  4. ✅ View sunlight during the last couple hours of the day
  5. ✅ Walk barefoot outside (“Grounding”) at least once per day
  6. ✅ Eat dinner at least 3 hours prior to bedtime
  7. ✅ Only take sips of water around bedtime
  8. ✅ Take a hot bath/hot shower around an hour before bedtime
  9. ✅ Turn off all bright overhead lights in the evening hours
  10. ✅ Wear blue-light-blocking glasses after 7 PM
  11. ✅ Limit screen time (TV, phone, etc.) after 7 PM
  12. ✅ Read in bed
  13. ✅ Keep the bedroom as cold as possible
  14. ✅ Eliminated artificial lights from the bedroom when finally going to sleep
  15. ✅ Focus on nasal breathing while falling asleep

Sleep Don’ts

  1. ❌ Drink coffee until 90-120 minutes after waking
  2. ❌ Consume caffeine 12 hours prior to bed
  3. ❌ Nap after 3 PM
  4. ❌ Snack after dinner
  5. ❌ Drink large quantities of liquids after dinner
  6. ❌ Drink alcohol during or after dinner
  7. ❌ Take any sleep medications or supplements

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Daily Routine + Sleep Protocol

Now that I’ve covered my daily routine and sleep protocol, I will combine them to show how it all works synergistically. For simplicity, I will show the most typical day, which is when Christina doesn’t go into the office. Sleep protocol is depicted in red.

When Christina doesn’t go into the office:

  • 3:00 AM – Wake up, get dressed, chores (turn on all bright lights once out of the bedroom)
  • 3:30 AM – Work (have bright lights on)
  • 6:00 AM – Read & journal; time with Christina (1st cup of coffee – >90-120min after waking)
  • 7:00 AM – Make family breakfast; I have some fruit (1st snack of the day)
  • 7:30 AM – Clean up the kitchen (last cup of coffee – if having a second)
  • 8:00 AM – Workout #1 (Run) (1st workout; AM sunlight exposure)
  • 9:00 AM – Post-run recovery
  • 9:30 AM – Kids snack time; I eat breakfast (1st meal of the day)
  • 10:00 AM – Errands; playtime with kids
  • 11:30 AM – Make family lunch; I eat as well (2nd meal of the day)
  • 12:00 PM – Clean kitchen/house
  • 12:30 PM – Put kids down for a nap
  • 1:00 PM – Workout #2 (Lift) (2nd workout of the day)
  • 2:00 PM – Post-life recovery
  • 2:30 PM – Work
  • 3:00 PM – Wake kids up; snack time; I eat again (2nd snack of the day)
  • 3:30 PM – Playtime with kids; start dinner prep (go outside for PM sunlight exposure and walk around barefoot [grounding]; turn off all bright, recessed lighting in the house)
  • 5:00 PM – Serve family dinner (3rd and final meal of the day – 3 hours prior to bedtime)
  • 5:30 PM – Post-dinner playtime; clean kitchen/house
  • 6:00 PM – Kids bathtime, getting ready for bed
  • 7:00 PM – Kids bedtime; Christina and I start getting ready for bed (take a hot bath; don blue light-blocking glasses; dim lights in the bedroom)
  • 8:00 PM – Down for the night (phone put away and reading till eyes get heavy..)

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Sleep Technology

The health tech industry is a boom right now, and I would be remiss if I didn’t include a section. With people’s fascination with improving health and tracking health data, many products have been created to capture it. Sleep tech is up there at the top. From watches to mattresses to apps, many products are being introduced to help track and improve your sleep.

I would be lying if I didn’t want to try it all, but like taking sleeping supplements, it can get costly. So personally, to keep an idea of my sleep performance each night, I use the free version of an app called Pillow through my Apple Watch. It automatically detects when I fall asleep and wake up and tracks my sleep cycle through the night.

Here’s an example of what my nightly sleep report would look like:

Sleep report on Pillow app

The Apple Watch 8 now has a built-in sleep cycle tracker, so you may not even need an app anymore if you have this most recent version.

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Conclusion

Sleep may be one of the most underrated hacks to dramatically improve your health and wellness. From decreasing your lifetime chances of developing dementia, cancer, and diabetes to increasing your productivity, athletic performance, and quality of life, sleep can do it all. I hope that by sharing my journey toward maximizing sleep and my sleep protocol, you may find the inspiration and tools to do the same.

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Stay tuned for my protocols on nutrition and fitness!

I also plan to adapt these protocols for the whole family to show how they can be applied to your kids! Always remember, what’s good and bad for you, is good and bad for your kids! Treat them as you’d like to be treated, and give them the best chance at health and wellness!

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